Relating to Experiences.

How do we relate to experiences? I mean, an experience is an experience. How do you relate an experience, to an experience? Or, how do you relate a different experience, to a present experience? A person perhaps, feels inadequate, when he relates an experience to a different experience. For an example, if a person wants to understand another person, then he takes the help of another a different understanding, to help understand, what he wants to understand. As a further example, a person takes the help of feelings, to understand thought. Without emotion, or feelings, it is impossible to understand the words in thought. A feeling, is what exactly? What do we relate to, when we feel? Do we relate to the whole experience, on the basis of our feeling? For an example, if I am feeling angry, and someone wants to placate me. Then, I might become more angry, because I want to relate to my thought, on the basis of my angry emotion. A person normally becomes angry, because he wants to relate to an experience, with the help of a different experience, not knowing, that the two experiences, are not similar. When a man is very emotional, he wants to identify a present situation, with an earlier situation, which identifies with the present emotional experience, and he is very intent, on doing so, especially if the emotion he feels is negative, or if he is insecure of the experience. I may continue my expressions on this topic later.