Positivity and Negativity.

What is a positive outlook to life, and what is a negative outlook to life? I have come to be aware, perhaps, that when a positive outlook is in conflict, then one encounters a negative outlook. Feeling negative, has nothing to do with what one feels is the object of one's negativity, perhaps. Feeling negative, has to do with how positive one felt, before one encountered the feeling of negativity. Or, if one naturally feels positive about something, how one reacts to a negative perception of that something. So in reality, perhaps, the most negative people, are also the most positive people, and the opposite to the perception mentioned just before, is also true. If some memory that one cherishes, makes one unhappy, then one must learn to comprehend, that what we cherish and what we dislike, are not that important. What is perceived to be positive, and what is perceived to be negative, are the most abstract perceptions. In other words, our perception of positive and negative, are not based on any concrete reasons. We may say, that it is appropriate for one to cry in one circumstance, and inappropriate for the same one to cry in a different circumstance.