Perception of Loss.

How does one perceive loss? Do we loose, or are we lost, to what is lost? This is the conundrum which is worrying and bothering, perhaps. Perhaps, we are both lost to what is lost, and we also loose what is lost. If we accept this basic surmise, then the burden is lost from loosing. Then, we are perhaps glad, that we lost. If we perceive loss in a certain manner, then we are not bound, by our negative perception of loss, perhaps.